God does not violate our free-will. All through the Scriptures He makes covenants(contracts or agreements) with a cognizant being ,endowed with personal sovereignty. We are free to reject his gift/offering/sacrifice to our own eternal damnation. No one will spend eternity in hell because God damned him.
This first paragraph show you have no understanding of the Doctrine of Election. YHWH damns no one, they damn themselves. It takes belief for man to be saved, but before that man can believe it takes the regenerating work of the Holy Spirit. When someone can show me from Scripture where man has been given "free will" and "personal sovereignty", then and only then will I believe it.
Titus 3:5 Not by works of righteousness which we have done, but according to his mercy he saved us, by the washing of regeneration, and renewing of the Holy Ghost;
Man in his depravity does not have the capacity or the capability to come to YHWH on his own. To deny this is to deny Scripture.
Romans 8:7 "Because the carnal mind is enmity against God: for it is not subject to the law of God, neither indeed can be."
John 6:44 "No man can come to me, except the Father which hath sent me draw him: and I will raise him up at the last day."
John 6:65 "And he said, Therefore said I unto you, that no man can come unto me, except it were given unto him of my Father.
What do the two verses from John state? That man's has "free will" or "personal sovereignty" to come to Yeshua? No, it says the Father must draw him or he cannot come, not will not, but cannot.
Romans 3:10-18 As it is written, There is none righteous, no, not one:
11 There is none that understandeth, there is none that seeketh after God.
12 They are all gone out of the way, they are together become unprofitable; there is none that doeth good, no, not one.
13 Their throat is an open sepulchre; with their tongues they have used deceit; the poison of asps is under their lips:
14 Whose mouth is full of cursing and bitterness:
15 Their feet are swift to shed blood:
16 Destruction and misery are in their ways:
17 And the way of peace have they not known:
18 There is no fear of God before their eyes.
Psalm 14 2-3 The Lord looked down from heaven upon the children of men, to see if there were any that did understand, and seek God.
3 They are all gone aside, they are all together become filthy: there is none that doeth good, no, not one.
Do these verse state that man is sovereign or that his "free will" causes him to seek YHWH? It says corrupt man does not seek Him.
Genesis 6:5 "And God saw that the wickedness of man was great in the earth, and that every imagination of the thoughts of his heart was only evil continually."
Acts 13:48 "And when the Gentiles heard this, they were glad, and glorified the word of the Lord: and as many as were ordained to eternal life believed."
I suppose YHWH had nothing to do with the gentiles being appointed to eternal life, that this verse is a lie?
Ephesians 1:4-5 "According as he hath chosen us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and without blame before him in love: Having predestinated us unto the adoption of children by Jesus Christ to himself, according to the good pleasure of his will,"
1:11 "In whom also we have obtained an inheritance, being predestinated according to the purpose of him who worketh all things after the counsel of his own will:"
Some on this forum say the quote from Eph 1:4-5 has nothing to do with salvation. If that is not about salvation, I do not know what is.
Ephesians 2:1-5 "And you were dead in your trespasses and sins, 2 in which you formerly walked according to the course of this world, according to the prince of the power of the air, of the spirit that is now working in the sons of disobedience. 3 Among them we too all formerly lived in the lusts of our flesh, indulging the desires of the flesh and of the mind, and were by nature children of wrath, even as the rest. 4 But God, being rich in mercy, because of His great love with which He loved us, 5 even when we were dead in our transgressions, made us alive together with Christ (by grace you have been saved),"
John 11:39-43 "Jesus said, Take ye away the stone. Martha, the sister of him that was dead, saith unto him, Lord, by this time he stinketh: for he hath been dead four days. 40 Jesus saith unto her, Said I not unto thee, that, if thou wouldest believe, thou shouldest see the glory of God? 41 Then they took away the stone from the place where the dead was laid. And Jesus lifted up his eyes, and said, Father, I thank thee that thou hast heard me. 42 And I knew that thou hearest me always: but because of the people which stand by I said it, that they may believe that thou hast sent me.
43 And when he thus had spoken, he cried with a loud voice, Lazarus, come forth."
Just as Lazarus was dead in the tomb and could do nothing to resist Yeshua when he commanded Lazarus to come forth, so also the sinner that is dead in trespasses and sins cannot resist the Father's regenerating power that brings him from death to life in Yeshua.
AS far as man being sovereign SCripture has this to say:
1 Timothy 6:15 "which He will bring about at the proper time—He who is the blessed and only Sovereign, the King of kings and Lord of lords,"
Finally, I have yet to find anyone here or anywhere else for that matter, that can refute with Scriptural context the Doctrine of Election (Sovereign Grace). I always see people go around the mountain, but will not address the real scriptural issues head on, with Scripture. As it is said Scripture interprets Scripture.
Blessings in the name of the only Sovereign, YHWH